Today, I heard the words “it’s not your fault that you are fucked up, but it is your fault if you stay fucked up.” And holy hell, that hit me like a ton of bricks, because that is soooo true. We go through life blaming our childhoods and sometimes parents for the fact that we are sooooo fucked… Why have we not asked ourselves at what point it becomes our fault? We are stunting our growth by not realizing that we have the power to change, blaming others and wasting our precious time. If we are adults and we are still fucked up, that’s all on us. LITERALLY ALL ON US. You reach a point in your life where you are responsible for yourself, your happiness and how your life turns out. You can either sack up, look yourself in the eyes and own your shit or continue to suck. The choice is yours… what are you gonna do???
You have the power to be, and do whatever the heck you want to. You just have to open yourself up to it. We sit around and have so many negative thoughts, and we don’t understand that we are fucking ourselves into a deeper hole of fucked up fuckery. We never give anything a chance, we run from experience and risk. We have to learn why we are the way we are, dive deep and then decide how we wish to go about handling our baggage.
Nothing will ever change if all you ever do is complain about how much it sucks… nothing will ever change if you never decide to be a grown-up and deal with your life. Stop holding yourself back and more importantly stop holding others accountable for YOUR life not going the way you thought it would. You are the only one that has the power to make changes, and if you are lazy, your life will mirror that. You will never be completely fulfilled and will go on wasting your time blaming others.
If you want something, work for it. Experience and things don’t find you, you happen to them, by getting off your ass and WORKING for it. Experience and happiness will never walk up to your door, knock and say ” you are of age, let’s do this.” It’s a privilege to wake up every single day, it’s a privilege to live the life you have now, you just have to like it enough to want more… and there is nothing wrong with wanting more. Take a chance, take all of the risks and go out there and find whatever it is you are looking for, work hard and watch good things happen… Watch you un-fuck yourself little by little. YOU’VE GOT THIS. Make shit happen, my friend… you are capable of anything so long as you allow yourself to want it and work for it. AND no one is to blame if you aren’t loving the life you live.
So ask yourself today, what small changes will I make today that will give me a better tomorrow… wake up every morning and ask yourself that exact question. You are what you think!
❤ Ky
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